It’s just human nature. Either people get it right or not, like it or not, to other people, your outer appearance is primarily what they see and judge before they get to know “your inner character and abilities”. Be careful on the type of clothing, shoes and other material and changes you try to attach to the identity others create of you. What you give us, is what we (the public) work with. As Marlyn Monroe once said;
“I’ve never fooled anyone. I’ve let people fool themselves. They didn’t bother to find out who and what I was. Instead they would invent a character for me. I wouldn’t argue with them. They were obviously loving somebody I wasn’t.”
Your physical appearance is as important in shaping your identity as your mind. The clothes you wear, your hair style, even your fragrance communicates a message to people.
Our physical identities will negatively or positively affect our work, family life, spiritual life, especially how we feel about ourselves no matter how confident one is. Our societies throw their positive or negative judgement at us daily. Having a solid inner and outer identity that match will give you confidence, power and can help you achieve your life goals.